If You Haven't Yet Seen "Win Win," You Should Go See It
Remember the movie Garden State from a few years ago that was supposed to be about New Jersey, and was for a while, and was pretty good for like an hour or so, but then it got so bad and fake and sappy at the end that it ended up being more about somewhere else? Hollywood, I guess? Of course you remember. The soundtrack changed your life.
That movie really ticked me off. More than it should have, probably—like I said, it had some good things going for it. But because I’m from New Jersey, and have an emotional attachment to the place, I find myself disproportionately invested in work that represents it. I wish Garden State hadn’t been called Garden State, and had instead been called, I don’t know, Feelings Are Important or something, so the new movie Win Win could have been called Garden State. Because Win Win does everything right all the way through. Win Win is the best movie about New Jersey in a long, long time. It’s hard to tell, having seen it so recently (twice!), and this is a big statement, but I think Win Win might be my favorite movie about New Jersey ever, though I don’t much like the title.
And there are plenty of good movies about New Jersey. New Jersey Drive comes to mind, and Atlantic City and The King of Marvin Gardens. And Clerks and Be Kind Rewind. Oh, City of Hope, which I was reminded of recently. (That is awesome. But that might be less about New Jersey than these other ones—since I think the titular city is supposed to represent more of an American everycity type thing?) And The Station Agent, which was the first movie written and directed by the guy who wrote and directed Win Win, Thomas McCarthy. (Who also wrote and directed another great movie, The Visitor, but is probably most famous for playing a reporter who makes up fake newspaper stories on the last season of The Wire. He is very talented.)
McCarthy grew up in New Providence, the small, North Jersey suburb where Win Win takes place. The protagonist, played by Paul Giamatti, is a lawyer who also coaches the wrestling team at New Providence High School. He is a good, likeable person with a wife, played by Amy Ryan, and two daughters, but who has been having panic attacks because his legal practice is struggling. The wrestling team sucks, too, though that’s secondary. I don’t want to divulge too much of the story here, but Giamatti, acting out of desperation, commits a morally reprehensible act and suffers consequences—the first of which is that a sixteen year-old runaway with bleached hair winds up moving into the house.
The story is told well, and the acting is phenomenal. Particularly the scenes between Amy Ryan and Alex Shaffer, who plays the 16-year-old very much like a young Sean Penn. (If you are from New Jersey and find yourself increasingly affected by well-acted depictions of familial relationships as you get older—maybe it's because you have a kid, I don't know—or are otherwise an emotional sap, about halfway through this movie, you may find tears starting to well in your eyes at the simple appearance these two actors together on the screen.) And it’s really funny. Bobby Cannavale—who McCarthy also used in The Station Agent, and who plays Paul Giamatti’s best friend, who is in the midst of a divorce and having a midlife crisis—is extremely good at being from New Jersey. He grew up in Union City, maybe 15 minutes from New Providence.
The whole movie is really good at being from New Jersey. It looks great, which is to say evocatively ugly. Unfortunate fashion choices and horrible architecture under gray skies. Strip malls and too many cars and sickly yellow lighting in high-school locker rooms. But not overdone or cartoony. It looks real. And it gets it at the strength of heart that comes from living in a place that looks like this. Or at least that which we from New Jersey like to imagine comes from that. (If the sound of me singing “Meeting Across the River” or “Thunder Road” to myself as I type this comes through your screen as you read it, feel free to slap me back through the computer cables.)
The movie is about New Jersey as a place but also as an idea. It’s about hardship and fucking up at important things. About losing more than winning. But it’s about making it, in the end, about winning in a way that’s not so often depicted as winning. Because of friendship and love and second chances. So it’s about redemption, like lots of movies. But a different kind of redemption than lots of movies show us. All the redemption it can offer is beneath a dirty hood.







I've been to lot's of places, seen pictures of the rest,
But of all the places I can think of, I love Jersey best.
Woo, I'm from Chatham and in all the New Jersey-themed entertainment I've consumed, I don't think any of it has been set as close as New Providence so I'm excited for this! And I'm going on a road trip tomorrow with one of my NJ friends to visit another NJ friend, and also yesterday my parents bought me a plane ticket to go home and visit NJ for my birthday in June. Anyway, I'm a spaz and also I <3 NJ and will see this movie promptly.
P.S. I have a screenplay about New Jersey, anybody want to buy it?
See you at Charlie's Aunt.
Towne Tavern, more likely.
Got thrown out of there last week.
I loved this movie. Partially because I wrestled in Pennsylvania, which on the wrestling mat is sort of indistinguishable from Jersey (the mixed season of fantastic and terrible teams, the dreary, claustrophobic indoor gyms). But it also had a genuine Jersey quality that was as you say, sort of unassuming/un-exaggerated and thus pitch-perfect. Because of that, nothing really got in the way of the real family dynamics of the movie. It was acted by people, not caricatures, you know? God, I fell in love with that poor kid, who despite his teenage years and his angst was more thoughtful and reasoning than all the adults who surrounded him. Even the ending was perfect in shunning some sort of Hollywood climax–showing how these things really happen, often outside of the courtroom. Solid movie start to finish.
PENNSYLVANIA IS NOTHING LIKE NEW JERSEY, HOW DARE YOU.
Once you're south of the Raritan, it's all North Delaware to me.
As much as it pains me to say this as a philadelphian, south jersey and southeast pennsylvania are A LOT alike. Except for the part where jersey has cheaper gas and drive through liquor stores. Oh, and camden. Nothing on the PA side is even nearly as bad as camden. Not even chester.
@metoometoo if I blindfolded you, drove you around, took you to either Valley Forge or Cedar Bridge, and then took your blindfold off at the center of the wrestling mat, you would have no idea which was which. I'm talking about that, not the states themselves. #duh
That said…South Jersey and PA have some pretty obvious similarities…just take a ride down 202.
SOUTH JERSEY DOES NOT COUNT.
Is Bobby Cannavale from Union or Union City? I'm not trying to be a stickler, but as you're probably aware, it's a BIG difference.
I had a torrid, crazed, and, as it turned out, completely fake online relationship with a girl from New Providence when I was in grammar school.
Actually, TWO torrid, crazed, and eventually fake online relationships with girls from New Providence. One time, I had to cross reference the stores at the Newport Center and Short Hills malls in order to pick one that was only at Short Hills so I would have a pretense to explain to my mother why she had to drive me out there. I was supposed to meet this girl by that big numbers statue, but she never showed! Funny that my biggest regret is not remembering which store I picked.
Wow!
(And Canavale is from Union City—just double checked.)
Ha, I wrote my first film review a week ago and it was published today at the local alt-weekly here. It was for this film.
But yours is better. Obviously. Dammit.
Also, if you all aren't aware of the New Jersey Song, which you might remember from the beginning of Less than Jake's "Never Going Back to New Jersey," well, make yourself aware!
When The Station Agent came out, I and my girlfriend went to see it in Kinnelon, at the only theater anywhere near Newfoundland, where it was filmed and takes place. It played at that theater for a single weekend, and aside from us there were maybe 5 or 6 old people there. We loved it, of course. But anyway, the point is that being about New Jersey is more than it takes to get most Jerseyans to go, unless it's War of the Worlds and Bayonne is getting blowed up real good.
Those explosions got us a brand new Little League field on Spielberg's dime!
Writing like this makes me realize that, after living in Jersey for 13 years, I still know absolutely nothing about it. Princeton, apparently, is not Jersey, even though we all end up on the same turnpike eventually.
I had some friends in college from Westfield, and I hung out with them and their high school pals while we were all home over winter break. One of the kids was a theater major at NYU, and I asked him what it was like being from Jersey over there. And he said "Jersey? I'm not from Jersey. I'm from New Jersey."
So, I guess, to amend my previous statement, once you're west of Newark Bay, it's all North Delaware to me.
I think that this is a lot about NYU students and/or theater majors being really intolerable brats.
There's one New Jersey movie sadly missing from your list: "Rocket Science." It's about a kid who gets recruited for the high school debate club by a girl he falls for (played by Anna Kendrick). It's also got Margo Martindale (who's playing Mags on "Justified" right now). It was written by Jeffrey Blitz, who directed that doc "Spellbound." It's funny and charming and smart and quite melancholy. It's pretty much a smartened-up John Hughes movie for a new generation, and one of the best marketed-to-teens films ever (though it never really found an audience). And it's very much New Jersey, with large parts of it set in Trenton.
Oh, thanks. I'll have to check that out. Friends have reminded me of some other good ones, too. Another nice small one called "Whatever." And the cheery Todd Solenz romps "Welcome to the Dollhouse" and "Happiness." I'm sure there's lots more. Probably some good ones from the olden-er days, too. I don't know movies from the black-and-white era so well.
I'd add "The Wrestler" to that list.