You people with food trucks should be meeting the trains, as they are full of people wild-eyed from the terrible white-flour and preservatives cafe food onboard but have not enough time to explore during train stops. The ability to step off and get a nice fresh juice would transform the experience, as the riding the train part is actually terrific.
It's also a great place to sketch people...
Amtrak should partner with that juice guy and do a nationwide tour. You read it here first.
AA can work where nothing else did. The people that share their stories, the real stories like what you haven't been telling, and reach out to support others in the same fix, are doing a lot to making something work.
I've seen what doesn't work very recently, with an alcoholic family member who said no one cared about him and shut out the people who loved him. Last I saw him, he was on a tabletop in a jewelry -sized box. He was 49.
And I see it's time to change my avatar. Hillary taking a shot ain't that funny to me these days.
One of the theories presented in this chat, proven true by Saint Brad Pitt Saves the Day in this years' Oscars.
Jessica's hypersensitivity and black and while thinking match the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder. Apparently BPD's the bane of therapists as the "love me or leave me" patients with this disorder love to sue, so therapists don't take them on. But now BPD people are thought to be able to change their behavior with training. Tl;DR this duckling could become a swan if she wanted/ was motivated to. Not your problem.
Dear LW, well done on writing. Did you notice that even though you've noticed the anxiety becoming more problematic for you, you were still able to trust us enough to write? There is way, way more strength and courage to you than you realize. You've got this.
LW tattles, "and he was taking Xanax!" as if that was a bad thing. I don't agree. He had to have had enough self-awareness to go for help, endure the diagnosis, and found the ability to stay on the medication. In a person this profoundly disordered, I find myself admiring his ability to do that. That isn't something LW needs to mock; she may instead think of emulating it.
I recently read a description of "Borderline Personality Disorder" which the LW's vampire seems to fit, as well. Recent advances have said this disorder responds to DBT therapy, and motivated people can recover, additionally most see symptoms recede with age.
@Danzig! Enjoyed your insights as much as Polly's own.
Hey LW2, a husband who reneges on the child -having deal then complains about you returning to school while refusing to participate in molding your relationship via therapy, does not equal a partner who'd "walk through fire" to me. I married a guy with these traits and came to feel his lack of respect really stemmed from a fundamental dishonesty to all, including himself. As he was unwilling to change, I divorced him. Surprise, forced to deal with his own slime out on the open dating market, he's grown into a much better man than he ever would have been with me.
Terrific read-why is it normal to be this constantly half-aroused persona with jutting silicone breasts? Equally mesmerizing illustration with cute, healthy girl eying the cigarette-toting owner of The Male Gaze striding past, flip-flops a-ploshing.
No mention of Hunter S. Thompson? On another tack, I've wondered if the alcoholic male writer was made possible because his writing was published, enabling, in the literal sense, the Italian villa with unobtrusive/fawning servant portrayed in "Love, Actually." My memory serves up many examples of this writer and servant; admittedly, the servant is not always female.
There's clearly room now for the companion book on female writers. I think of how delighted I was with quotes from Dorothy Parker-until I read a collection. In quantity, the intelligence, gaiety and charm gave way to the usual horrific alcoholic personality.