I'm the same camp with the whole match.com, eharmony thing. I don't like dating sites and I'm unattached--I have been for a while, I refuse to say how long though. one's business. Anyway, the whole "party of one" concept applies to many people, more than they would like to admit. There were times in which I've entered a room but I felt no one actually "saw" me. I mean, the saw me with there eyes, but they looked right through me as if I were transparent.