Nice meal. For the fifth date make a paella with all the decadent seafood items - lobster, scallops, shrimp etc. To make your date a breeze in the kitchen use this sauteed seasoning base (sofrito) we found online at www.oldhavanafoods.com
It works great for real Cuban black beans (they sell those too) arroz con pollo (chicken and rice). No comparison to the taste of Goya's bland sofrito vs this really authentic one from Old Havana Foods. You really ought to try it.