@Ren_li I think this might might have a lot to do with the mother's attitude about the father not being around. Maybe? Like if mom's attitude is, we've got this, we're a complete family, there is no dad, then it's not a big deal, but if mom is trying to get dad to step up, or wishing dad was around more, then the kid will feel the loss in a different way...
But I could be full of shit. Who knows.
@pointreyes, I hope you are able to be at peace with whatever decision you make.
Is that a hashbrown patty covered in cheesy eggs wrapped in a tortilla? I'm gonna need one of those. And a waffle taco.
Seems to be a lovely story unfolding, but I am most impressed by her handwriting!
The best thing anyone's ever done for me is once a friend-with-benefits told me that I am not actually low maintenance at all. It was quite a revelation. it's okay to have needs, and best if you can express them.
Bulleit rye is very good and not at all expensive. I think it goes best with ginger ale.
last Friday, a friend brought over some homemade ginger beer with just a hint of spicy peppers, which was mixed with some Bulleit rye, and it was delightful.