@Ralph Haygood My boss is always telling me to position myself as a "thought leader." I want to get it printed on a trucker hat.
@thegirlieshow Other people do this too? Mine is "My Life Is a Beige Pointless Landscape."
This guy hates women, period. Why? Well, that's not my problem to figure out. But why I should give two fucks about someone who clearly has a huge problem with half of the human species is beyond me.
@davidwatts This wasn't one thing, like "Oh, you'd look good with your hair long!" It was several things. If you have to suggest that many "improvements" to your partner, the problem is yours, not theirs. If you are not physically attracted to someone, you shouldn't be going out with them.
Huh, this is interesting. I have a friend (no really, it's not me) who is very fun, smart, and witty, so she has no problem making friends. Only a lot of these friends end up being incredibly needy, and as a woman with a demanding job plus a husband and kid, she's not able to give them the time and attention they need. (Most of them need therapists, not sympathetic friends.) We've talked about it and I've always been stymied about why this happens to her in particular. This is not exactly the same situation, but it does provide some insights!
@City_Dater Yeah, I guess "being a dick" IS inherently masculine, but to imply that's all it is is kind of insulting to menfolk.
I once got ONE margarita in the Cancun airport waiting for my flight home--it was so strong and large that I got so drunk I honestly was worried about being able to walk to the gate.
@Polina V. Yamshchikov@facebook Castelvetrano olives 4-EVAH
@themegnapkin Also realizing that what you have been told will make you happy, or what you assume will make you happy, will not always make you happy.
@geekspice Um in fact I go without booze for days at a time and I rarely have more than a glass or two of wine with dinner when I do imbibe. (That's what middle age does to you, kids!) What I meant was, having to deal with that family situation without the sweet relief of a drink or two was a deal-breaker for me. That's why I said "in this situation" in my original post. But hey, why not assume the worst with minimal information?