I never see comments here.
I'm so glad you keep posting these reports! They remind me of the wonderful short time I spent in NYC. It's like a tiny visit to NYC.
My reaction to all of Ann Romeney's "I know what you're dealing with" was, yeah. Your nanny described it to you.
I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine that sort of pain.
That person is horrible for driving drunk and fast. That's reason enough for your rage.
That person is almost certainly forbidden from contacting you or apologizing by his lawyer.
Be careful where you aim your rage. Otherwise it'll erode your spirit.