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@crunchybits I know, but even the explanation doesn't really back off on it. (Like, "her need to matter to you"? That's a hell of an assumption to make -- "she pulled me aside during the wedding reception and told me, through tears, that she just wanted my boyfriend to be happy" seems to me exactly like how "Oh Jesus, this is weird for me, but I'm happy for you guys" would come through after a few drinks -- but even if it is, SO WHAT? What's wrong with wanting to feel like you matter? That seems like a pretty fundamentally human emotion. And it doesn't make someone crazy. Particularly not when the sum total of the "troublemaking" was a more or less polite comment.)
I don't know, I guess I don't see responding to "How can I deal with being jealous of this person?" with "It's okay, she is just a FUCKING CRAZY PERSON because orgasms and Angelina Jolie" as empathetic, even just as a thought experiment.
Wait, so let me get this straight. Being drunk and being teary about an ex you probably loved and maybe made some stupid, terrible decisions about - at a wedding, where alcohol is readily available and relationship thoughts are unavoidably at the forefront - makes you A FUCKING CRAZY PERSON now? Good to know. (I'm not even going to touch the multi-orgasmic = crazy thing, no matter how much it plays dead-straight-into a lot of crap narratives about sex and mental illness. It isn't about "oh no their plight is horrible," it is about how one is wired sexually has nothing to do with how good of a person they are? It's the same principle as "if you have trouble with things in bed you're just a cold frigid unloving bitch," just in reverse.)
So if someone were to write to you, saying "It's been a year and I can't seem to get over my ex-boyfriend. I know it's wrong and I know I was at fault because I cheated, but every time I think of him I get teary. I just want him to be happy, but I feel like I threw away the love of my life. Recently I was at a wedding and I saw his new girlfriend, and it just brought all of it back, and I really tried to go out of my way to be nice and accepting of her but I was drunk and it came out drunk," the response would be "Sorry, you are a FUCKING CRAZY PERSON and also a giant stupid sad lying liar who lies, and oh by the way you are exactly like this person who is not mortal and not even human, in summary probably just die?" Because that sure seems to me like what's going on. I know you sort of back off on that later on, but... it's also there, and it's also the first thing that's mentioned, and I find it weird given that the tone of all your other columns is "experiencing emotions or sometimes making mistakes about how you express them does not make you crazy."
I expected this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBumgq5yVrA
62% are full-time copy editors? Yeah, definitely made-up numbers.
Beyonce is not pleased.
video: still glorious
Not to be outdone by Obama doing a Reddit AMA, the Romney campaign decided to take design inspiration from Memegenerator.
@blackalabama It's demonstrating how you respond: "k, Nelson."
I don't get it. Where's the animated GIF star rating?