An article in this weekend's Times dealt with the burgeoning trend of intersexual friendship between straight men and gay men. There are some surprising nuggets of information—straight men with military training are more likely to be accepting of gay friends—and some confusing assertions about the basis for these friendships and how they do and don't work. To further advance the discussion, we got a gay dude and a straight fellow who have been friends for most of this decade to reflect on the piece. READ MORE 21